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Bruce the Bird, and the Gumtree of Connection: How One Cockatoo Changed Our Mine Site

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  Bruce the Bird, and the Gumtree of Connection: How One Cockatoo Changed a Mine Site. Written by The Resilient Rose At a dusty Mount Isa mine site in Queensland, Australia, a place better known for its roaring trucks and endless red dirt, something a little unexpected happened... It all started with Bruce. Bruce wasn't your typical workplace newcomer. He didn't need a swipe card. He didn't fill out any HR paperwork. He was a sulphur-crested cockatoo with a cheeky attitude and a taste for mischief. At first, Bruce was just the funny side note in our morning toolbox talks, or a quick laugh over a coffee, while chatting about his latest antics and his latest attempt at pruning the leaves on the Gumtree. But like most things that matter, it wasn't really about the bird. It was about what Bruce sparked... Tiny Moments, Big Connections Conversations that used to skim the surface like weather, footy scores, broken equipment... began to shift. Suddenly, it was "Did you ...

Blooming Resilience: How Self-Compassion Cultivates Lasting Wellbeing

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  Blooming Resilience: How Self-Compassion Cultivates Lasting Wellbeing Written by The Resilient Rose There's something profoundly brave about turning inward with kindness, especially when the world feels heavy, messy, or out of reach. Self-compassion, as defined by researcher Kristen Neff, is about treating ourselves like we would a dear friend in moments of struggle. It's made up of three simple but radical ingredients: kindness, mindfulness, and the understanding that we are not alone in our pain.  But here's the real magic: emerging research shows that self-compassion isn't just a soft feel-good idea. It's a powerful foundation for blooming resilience, the kind of resilience that doesn't come from gritting our teeth and pushing through, but from rooting deeply into care for ourselves, especially when life gets tough... Let's walk through what the research tells us about self-compassion and its relationship to true, lasting well-being.  Psychological Well...

Savoring Life's Smallest Moments: The Hidden Key to Growing Resilience

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  Savoring Life's Smallest Moments: The Hidden Key to Growing Resilience Written by The Resilient Rose In a world that moves at the speed of a swipe, it's easy to miss the quiet, golden moments that nourish our spirit. Yet the science is clear: savoring - the mindful practice of attending to and enhancing positive experiences, is a powerful, evidence-based way to grow wellbeing and resilience.  As Fred Bryant  (2003) beautifully explains, savoring isn't just about feeling good; it's about stretching  those good feelings, soaking them in, and letting them expand within us. It's a slow bloom in a fast world, and for many of us, it's the very antidote we didn't know we needed. In the spirit of Brene Brown (2010), who reminds us that "vulnerability is the birthplace of joy,"  savoring asks us to be brave enough to fully feel good, not rush past it, not downplay it, but lean in with open-hearted wonder.  What Exactly Is Savoring? At its heart, savoring ...